I’ve warned you about dating someone gadget-obsessed, but you just couldn’t help yourself and fell in love with one of us. Let’s talk about avoiding feeling like you’re in a ménage à trois with a person and some circuits.
Gadgetwise’s Jenna Wortham was forced to contemplate the hardship of loving someone who’s in lust with electronics when one of her readers wrote in with a desperate plea for advice:
My boyfriend is in love with his iPhone. He uses it all the time-during dinner, the movies and even in bed! I have an iPhone too, so I can understand his obsession, but at the same time it’s becoming enough of a distraction while we are together to be a problem. What should I do?
Jenna explained that, as any other relationship issue, you can resolve this one by talking with your partner. You need to set limits, figure out when it’s absolutely unacceptable to reach for the digital mistress and when the wandering attention can be excused. That’s it. It’s that simple. Whether your lover is obsessed with an iPhone, a BlackBerry, a printer or tricked-out ottoman; communication is key. [NY Times]
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