We usually think of Facebook as a place to either keep in touch with real friends or cryogenically freeze old and artificial ones that wouldn’t otherwise exist. But a new Pew study says FB can actually end relationships, too. Naturally!
According to the study, “The tone of life on social networking sites,” 15 per cent of adults and a whopping 22 per cent of teens (volatile teens!) “had an experience on the site that ended their friendship with someone”. Ended! Permanent friendship cancellation! That’s over 1 in 5 teens on Facebook (the study also mentions LinkedIn, but really, nobody’s taking offence to a resume) who have IRL spillover from online nastiness. Enough so that they’re calling it quits with another human.
But what could be that bad? A racist status update? An offensive photo comment? Facebook allows you to meticulously craft a persona, if you so choose — so you’d think people would be smart enough to filter out something that might compromise an actual friendship. But you’d be wrong, because people are stupid, and Facebook is comprised of 800 million of them. Either we’re getting more sensitive, or the engorged definition of friendship Facebook’s prospered from can cut both ways — easy come, easy go.
It gets worse than friend spats, however — like, physical brawling bad. The study also claims 3 per cent of adults “had gotten into a physical fight with someone based on an experience they had on the site. Some 8 per cent of [social network-using] teens said they had gotten into a fight because of what happened on the site.” A fight could go anywhere from a slap to getting thrown through a window, so there’s some breadth here. But a physical fight stemming from Facebook transgression seems radical. Extremely radical. This means there are social problems, originating on a place we share links and party photos, that not only can’t be solved online, but require violent physical contact.
The spread of Timeline, a more vibrant and robust way to browse the Book, can only mean more vibrant and robust arguments and hair-pulling matches. Be careful what you say about that new cover photo. [Pew]
X
Friday, February 10, 2012 at 12:24 PMBest thing i ever did was get rid of facebook.
Gleno
Friday, February 10, 2012 at 1:11 PMand now all your friends think you’re too superior for facebook and are plotting to punch you in the face.
Ozoneocean
Friday, February 10, 2012 at 1:16 PMHahaha!
yrrnn
Friday, February 10, 2012 at 1:16 PMI think the fact that this is happening on Facebook is kind of irrelevant. People have been ending friendships and getting into fights long before Facebook was around. The only difference is now they can do it from the comfort of their own home.
Ozoneocean
Friday, February 10, 2012 at 1:18 PMTo get into a fight, a physical fight, over something online, you have to be a violent turd to begin with anyway.
I suppose for someone weak willed, using FB as an excuse for their behaviour seems like a good save, but there really is no excuse.
James
Friday, February 10, 2012 at 5:32 PMIt’s far too easy to get heated in an arguement over facebook than you would in real life with the same person face to face. Everything but actually talking to a person is too impersonal and lacks any kind of emotional connection to the individual and therefore makes it really easy for you to call them “a mindless brainwashed bigot!!!!!”
Franz
Friday, February 10, 2012 at 9:51 PMAll your facebook friend are belong to us.