Scientifically Speaking, Nice Guys Do Not Actually Finish Last

Think only jerks can catch a break in this cruel world? Nope. David Rand, a Harvard University researcher, studied the behaviour of 800 individuals he recruited through Amazon’s Mechanical Turk to prove it.

Rand had people play a game to find out whether they would be nice or mean in a social network.

We had them play a cooperation game embedded in a social network. At the beginning of the game, each person was randomly connected to set of other players (her ‘friends’). In each round of the game, each player chose whether to be generous and pay a cost to give a benefit to each of their friends, or to be selfish and not. Then the players got to find out whether some random other people where generous or not, and based on that information could choose to form new friendships, or break existing friendships. The amount of money they got paid at the end of the study depended on how many points they earned, so being generous really cost you something (and was really materially beneficial for your ‘friends’).

One key difference between this study and others, for example the famous Stanford prison experiment, is that the subjects could choose their friends. Unlike the in the Stanford study, people in Rand’s experiment could break their connection with someone who was a jerk and move on to someone more amiable.

The key insight of our paper was that allowing people to make and break friendships supports generosity. In the game worlds where friends were fixed, or where friendships were shuffled randomly, selfish people did better and selfishness spread. But in the games where people had control over their friendships, generosity was favoured and being nice spread.

Since most of us can choose who to befriend, this makes me happy. All you mean girls and boys out there: know that scientifically you are at a disadvantage.

And the method in which Rand performed his study is almost as interesting as the study itself: He used Amazon’s Mechanical Turk, the online hub that matches tech employers with workers to do things that humans are better at than computers — like tag photos or choose categories for products. Rand used it to recruit and pay folks for the study. Turns out, Mechanical Turk could transform social science big time. Rand told me about it over email:

…the main advantage MTurk offers over the physical lab is making it easy to recruit subjects who are more diverse in terms of age, education, income and geography.

It also makes studying so many people an “order of magnitude” less expensive than it would have been had Rand recruited subjects through solicitations at universities or other institutions and had them come to the lab. He also collected the data in just a few months — much faster than by traditional methods. “Even more importantly,” Rand said, “it involved MANY fewer man-hours, because the experimenters didn’t have to go down to the lab, set things up, wait for people to show up, etc.”

It’s exciting to imagine other insights Mechanical Turk might help uncover. In fact, Rand has lots more already in the works, including one asking whether people are intuitively cooperative or if we have to try hard to be. Personally I would like to know why everyone lies so much. [Proceedings of the National Academy of Science]

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    Ozoneocean

    Tuesday, November 15, 2011 at 4:12 PM

    Yep, this would tie in what my (very) informal studies of online collaborative social communities over the years, and even in games that allow collaboration: helpful, nice people are popular and get ahead, the spirit of collaboration spreads from them and things get accomplished.
    When you have people who are just being dicks, they can also become popular (or at least “known”), but not as popular as helpful people because they divide communities, dickishness spreads and projects fail or more usually never even get off the ground.

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    Aaron

    Tuesday, November 15, 2011 at 6:02 PM

    My rampaging and unrewarded 16 year old libido (of some 16 years ago) would disagree with these findings. As my old friend Stu was often heard to say in his sage like tones, tapping the stem of his pipe against his forehead, “Pricks always get the chics man”.

    Yes, he really had a pipe.

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    Rik

    Tuesday, November 15, 2011 at 8:44 PM

    OK sounds interesting
    But what about in a situation where you can’t control your “friends” i.e. at work where someone else chooses your “friends” for you (and which makes a huge impact on your life)
    also do these principles hold when people are dealing with each other face to face as opposed to online.
    We all know about the 10yr old who is a huge mean troll online but wouldn’t say ‘boo’ to a goose in real life
    I appreciate the savings got by using MTurk but I feel it has impacted the findings a lots and that these results tell probably not even half the story
    More needs to be done

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    bear

    Tuesday, November 15, 2011 at 11:05 PM

    incomplete data… where is the part that asked/determined the females which ones they wanted to bed/mate with?? That’s the only part that counts in the ‘nice guys finish last” paradigm.

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    TSH

    Wednesday, November 16, 2011 at 11:19 AM

    “Nice guys finish last”
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Fz3zFqLc3E

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