
The Misconception: We prefer the things we own over the things we don’t because we made rational choices when we bought them. The Truth?
The truth is that you prefer the things you own because you rationalise your past choices to protect your sense of self.
The Internet changed the way people argue.
Check any comment system, forum or message board and you will find fanboys going at it, debating why their chosen product is better than the other guy’s.
In modern consumer cultures like America, people compete for status through comparing their taste in products. (You can read more on how that works here: Selling Out).
Mac vs PC, PS3 vs XBox 360, iPhone vs Android – it goes on and on.
Usually, these arguments are between men, because men will defend their ego no matter how slight the insult. These are also usually about geeky things that cost lots of money, because these battles take place on the Internet where tech-savvy people get rowdy, and the more expensive a purchase, the greater the loyalty to it.
Fanboyism isn’t anything new, it’s just a component of branding, which is something marketers and advertisers have known about since Quaker Oats created a friendly logo to go on their burlap sacks.
There was, of course, no friendly Quaker family making the oats back in 1877. The company wanted people to associate the trustworthiness and honesty of Quakers with their product. It worked.
This was one of, if not the first, such attempt to create brand loyalty – that nebulous emotional connection people have with certain companies which turns them into defenders and advocates for corporations who don’t give a shit.
In experiments where people were given Coke and Pepsi in unmarked cups and then hooked up to a brain scanner, the device clearly showed a certain number of them preferred Pepsi while tasting it.
When those people were told they where drinking Pepsi, a fraction of them, the ones who had enjoyed Coke all their lives, did something unexpected. The scanner showed their brains scrambling the pleasure signals, dampening them. They then told the experimenter afterward they had preferred Coke in the taste tests.
They lied, but in their subjective experiences of the situation, they didn’t. They really did feel like they preferred Coke after it was all over, and they altered their memories to match their emotions.
They had been branded somewhere in the past and were loyal to Coke. Even if they actually enjoyed Pepsi more, huge mental constructs prevented them from admitting it, even to themselves.

Add this sort of loyalty to something expensive, or a hobby which demands a large investment of time and money, and you get a fanboy. They defend their favourite stuff and ridicule the competition, ignoring facts if they contradict their emotional connection.
So, what creates this emotional connection to stuff and the companies who make doo-dads?
Marketers and advertising agencies call the opposite of fanboys hostages.
Hostages have no choice but to buy certain products, like toilet paper and gasoline. Since they can’t choose to own or not to own the product, they are far less likely to care if one version of toilet paper is better than another, or one gas station’s fuel is made by Shell or Chevron.
On the other hand, if the product is unnecessary, like an iPad, there is a great chance the customer will become a fanboy because they had to choose to spend a big chunk of money on it. It’s the choosing one thing over another which leads to narratives about why you did it.
If you have to rationalise why you bought a luxury item, you will probably find ways to see how it fits in with your self-image.
Branding builds on this by giving you the option to create the person you think you are through choosing to align yourself with the mystique of certain products.
Apple advertising, for instance, doesn’t mention how good their computers are. Instead, they give you examples of the sort of people who purchase those computers. The idea is to encourage you to say, “Yeah, I’m not some stuffy, conservative nerd. I have taste and talent and took art classes in college.”
Are Apple computers better than Microsoft-based computers? Is one better than the other when looked at empirically, based on data and analysis and testing and objective comparisons?
It doesn’t matter.
Those considerations come after a person has begun to see themselves as the sort of person who would own one. If you see yourself as the kind of person who owns Apple computers, or who drives hybrids, or who smokes Camels, you’ve been branded.
Once a person is branded, they will defend their brand by finding flaws in the alternative choice and pointing out benefits in their own.
There are a number of cognitive biases which converge to create this behaviour.
The Endowment Effect pops up when you feel like the things you own are superior to the things you do not.
Psychologists demonstrate this by asking a group of people how much they think a water bottle is worth. The group will agree to an amount around $5, and then someone in the group will be given the bottle for free.
Then, after an hour, they ask the person how much they would be willing to sell the bottle back to the experimenter for. They usually ask for more money, like $8.
Ownership adds special emotional value to things, even if those things were free.
Another bias is the Sunk Cost Fallacy. This is when you’ve spent money on something you don’t want to own or don’t want to do and can’t get it back.
For instance, you might pay too much for some takeout food that really sucks, but you eat it anyway, or you sit through a movie even after you realise it’s terrible.
Sunk Cost can creep up on you too. Maybe you’ve been a subscriber to something for a long time and you realise it costs too much, but you don’t end your subscription because of all the money you’ve invested in the service so far.
Is Blockbuster better than Netflix, or Tivo better than a generic DVR? If you’ve spent a lot of money on subscription fees, you might be unwilling to switch to alternatives because you feel invested in the brand.
These biases feed into the big daddy of behaviours which is most responsible for branding, fanboyism and Internet arguments about why the thing you own is better than the thing the other guy owns – Choice Supportive Bias.
Choice Supportive Bias is a big part of being a person, it pops up all the time when you buy things.
It works like this: You have several options, like say for a new television. Before you make a choice you tend to compare and contrast all the different qualities of all the televisions on the market.
Which is better, Samsung or Sony, plasma or LCD, 1080p or 1080i – ugh, so many variables!
You eventually settle on one option, and after you make your decision you then look back and rationalise your actions by believing your television was the best of all the televisions you could have picked.
In retail, this is a well-understood phenomenon, and to prevent Buyer’s Remorse they try not to overwhelm you with choice. Studies show if you have only a handful of options at the point of purchase, you will be less likely to fret about your decision afterward.
It’s purely emotional, the moment you pick. People with brain damage to their emotional centres who have been rendered into Spock-like beings of pure logic find it impossible to decide between things as simple as which cereal to buy. They stand transfixed in the aisle, contemplating every element of their potential decision – the calories, the shapes, the net weight – everything. They can’t pick because they have no emotional connection to anything, no emotional motivations.
To combat postdecisional dissonance, the feeling you have committed to one option when the other option may have been better, you make yourself feel justified in what you selected to lower the anxiety brought on by questioning yourself.
All of this forms a giant neurological cluster of associations, emotions, details of self-image and biases around the things you own.
This is why all over the Internet there are people in word fights over video games and sports teams, cell phones and TV shows.
The internet provides a fertile breeding ground for this sort of behaviour to flourish.
So, the next time you reach for the mouse and get ready to launch and angry litany of reasons why your favourite – thing – is better than the other person’s, hesitate.
Realise you have your irrational reasons, and so do they, and nothing will be gained by your proselytising.
Links:
- Barry Shwartz on choice at TED
- Radiolab on choice
- Bruce Everiss on fanboys
- 10 Golden Rules of fanboyism
Republished with permission from you Are Nor So Smart.





















DarleneH
Saturday, January 15, 2011 at 3:03 AMAn interesting, if somewhat different, article. The author appears biased towards large companies. “…for corporations who don’t give a shit.” I would be interested in the references to these studies and experiments, it may have provided a little bit more credibilty to the article in my mind. The author also doesn’t appear to be a fan of fanboyism, if you pardon the pun.
Yes, fanboyism is has been allowed to grow due the accessibility of the internet by all. And it has probably made worse due to the fact that the internet is relatively anonymous. One can make comments online under the guise of anonymity that one would not necessarily make in public. The fanboy phenomena does not involve or impact on me as you will not find me online much, especially debating the merits of something or another I have just bought. If I like it, fine. If I don’t, I either shut up or put up – as the saying goes.
Yes, I think most of us consumers are all aware of the marketing and branding and promotional tools companies use to get us to buy our products, keep on buying them no matter if we really are not happy with the product and heaven forbid we admit regret to buying it. We’ve all made decisions for one reason or another that we have regretted and will not to admit to. After all, loyalty is a virtue is is not? And who wants to be disloyal? We do, think, act – and buy, based on our biases as its hard to separate ourselves from them. They are so much a part of human nature.
Bottom line; everyone is entitled to their opinion, likes and dislikes. It’s when people feel superior or put others down for their choices that I don’t like. Sure!! Espouse on your new Blackberry. Be a fan of it, think it’s the best thing since sliced bread. But leave me and my IPhone alone.
Samira A
Saturday, January 15, 2011 at 3:24 AMGreat article and very interesting.This article shows you how some people willing to pay more for brands and loyalty. I personally choose lower prices over brands or loyalty.Simply don’t care which brand is better than the other as long as they work efficently it’s all good with me.I have learned about my “internet Detective” how much research is important when purchasing anything. Well, i think some people might disagree with my comment.
Justin
Saturday, January 15, 2011 at 3:30 AMThis is so true. I used to work in retail and if a customer ever came in and asked, “Which is better, The PS3 or the XBox360?” There would be a mass of sales associates trying to “persuade” the customer to join their specific cult. It really is a matter of ego, and I must say it truly is more predominent in males ;)
Liz
Saturday, January 15, 2011 at 5:28 AMI found this article very interesting and very accurate for the die hard fans of anything, wether it be for a game, a sport team or a new technology toy. What I find extremely interesting is how the most die hard of fanboys can even become obnoxious and sometimes even rude while defending their love for something. For example if you go to any sporting event and root for the opposing team you can be called all sorts of names and sometimes even get objects thrown at you just for cheering your own team on. Thankfully not all fanboys are like this!
Beryl
Saturday, January 15, 2011 at 6:12 AMFanboyism has always been a part of our society for the longest time, however most people have made it an addiction and most companies are doing a great job controlling or rather manipulating people’s decision on purchasing products. The article really explains how fanboys have more spending power than hostages. Take the example of the hostage who goes to buy the toilet paper, they do not care what brand it is, what really matters is the necessity of the toilet paper, whereas the fanboy who focuses more on the brand of the product. I guess fanboyism gets people to feel a sense of “belonging” to a particular group or attachment and society seems to have taken it a bit too serious.
Rae
Saturday, January 15, 2011 at 7:12 AMThe article makes valid points about the way and reasons people stick to different products and brands. I definately agree with the fact that once someone is “branded” they will be loyal to that brand and defend it as much as possible. this is true to an extent I suppose, the only exception is if the product begins to fail, once this happens the person is likely to change their views on the product but will find another product to replace it and to become loyal to. This is the one point not mentioned in the article. no one wants a product that doesn’t do as it should or causes frustration and confusion. therefore change is likely to occur.
Gagandeep
Saturday, January 15, 2011 at 8:18 AMThis is a good and intresting artical which shares the information regarding the brands of the product. Its depend on the people which brand they like and they always talk with other in the favour of their loving brand. Some brands reflects the life of human. The quality and features of the product should be good, so that the people become crazy for that product and buy it. Some people are emotionaly attached with some branded products and its not easy for them to buy the other brand because they have trust on that brand and the company.
Jacky
Saturday, January 15, 2011 at 8:48 AMThis is great article that highlights many substantial points about fanboyism. I, myself own a Macbook for 2 years now, and not because of the brand but because I had poor experience with other brands in the past. So now, It is difficult to unattached myself to purchasing other brands because of my loyalty to Apple.
In this generation, people will protect their ego by flaunting their expensive products to make a statement. A big factor is lifestyle and trend because most of us is driven by what celebrities have, so they set a trend that is considered a luxury lifestyle. In my opinion, it’s all just material things. It’s definitely nice to have but to endeavor ourself in thinking highly of brand name products is meaningless.
Samantha R
Saturday, January 15, 2011 at 9:12 AMThis was a great article to read! I do agree with the customer loyalty, I as well am guilty of this too. Personally all that matters is what makes the person happy. If they happen to choose a product that is not the best of its kind, who cares they are the ones that have to use it. Hearing the Mac vs. PC war or the type of clothing people wear just makes me laugh, they bought it because they liked it so why defend it. I guess it is just the way our minds work.
Nkiruka
Saturday, January 15, 2011 at 9:58 AMAll that talk about fanboyism does not appeal to someone like me. i guess u can call me a ‘hostage’ because if i buy something and like it, i’ll stick with it for ages no matter how tempting or luring ads for substitutes are made!
Julie R
Saturday, January 15, 2011 at 10:05 AMI enjoyed the article. I can see the arguements for what is better or better than that, and even the ever favourite, buyer’s remorse. I have purchased items based on the sheer brand and reading that it is the best and felt great attachment to what I purchased after having for some time and even rationalizing why I have it and why I bought it.
Rajvir Kaur Nahal
Saturday, January 15, 2011 at 10:09 AMThis article was interesting and showed reality and in my opinion I consider that people do formulate their own emotions towards certain brands or products. They were loyal to their product. I also believe that “fanboyism” is a growing trend in our society. An iphone and ipad are examples of Products where costumers are crazy to buy at high prices because of their brand name reputation in the society If same thing they can buy in less money they do not prefer to buy low price things. It means that it is true People won’t buy products they think are low quality just because they like the brand.
Rawan
Saturday, January 15, 2011 at 10:27 AMwow…. Great article. I do agree about consumer loyalty because when a customer purchase a product and likes it is mostly that he will stick to it for years and try to get other people to like the product. In my opinion every product has its unique features but some people enjoy some features better then other.MAC and PC is a huge example of Fanboyism because up to date people argue aboutt which is better and also argue about other products that they purchase but I guess thats a common human trait to argue which is product is better and why, even though most products dont have that much of a differences or which is better then which; it’s all about loyalty and experinace with the product.
But overall I enjoyed reading the article great information!
Amel Obeidat
Tuesday, January 18, 2011 at 3:07 AMI thought this article was very interesting and true, because people do compare their products with others who have the same but different brand. They think there’s is better because they this their brand is the top of the line and do not consider other brand names.
Danrie Catsro
Wednesday, January 19, 2011 at 8:57 AMThis article was talked about the people who act to be a “fanboy” human buying expensive items, gadgets, etc. just to fulfill their desire, but it was unnecessary on their life. Human was afraid to be insulted because of poor purchase decision. Which human doesn’t like, they tend to buy the most expensive and known brand just to suits on their needs or ego. People who takes the expensive brand tend to be loyal and defend the item that they purchased. And when they try having a comparison between the two items.Instead of being insulted by other, they give a manifestation that their gadget was bought by
them was better than the other brand,to show their loyalty on their brand they get. The article was written just to open the people about the truth in expending and convincing our pleasure. Unfortunately, our society today lacks open-minded people. The article wanted us to be realized that it’s better to be in a normal
lifestyle instead of buying a luxury item just to support our ego or desire.